America 3:16: Family, Faith, Freedom, Forever Graham Allen

Why are gun rights human rights? And, why do so many Christians behave in such un-Christian ways?

Graham Allen has the answers. With over two billion views online, the social media star has given a voice to those who feel silenced by mainstream media and pop culture. Now, with America 3:16, Graham shares a deeper look at the life events that shaped his philosophy on Christianity, politics, family, and country.

Graham reveals how difficult family circumstances distorted his early understanding of God. His rearing could have destroyed his faith, but it only made his faith stronger and purer. In this book, the 12-year Army veteran and father of three takes you on his journey from a Mississippi upbringing, tours in Iraq, and his experience as one of the “other 99%.” By understanding where Graham Allen comes from, you’ll understand where he, and America, are going.

I’ve been a fan of Graham’s podcast Dear America for some time. I thought for Veteran’s Day I’d read his book I’ve had on my TBR. (Thank you for your service and God bless you, Graham.)

Some of the stories I knew already from hearing them on the podcast and others were new to me. I especially like the stories from when he served in Iraq. Some were crazy, crazy-scary, and some were funny and I loved the brotherhood between the unit.

I also loved the story of the ups and downs with him and his wife. I think it’s so cute that their relationship started as pen-pals when he was in Iraq the second time. Reminded me of my grandparents who’s courtship began as letters while my grandpa was serving during the Korean War. (Luckily he didn’t go to battle in Korea but was serving elsewhere.) But he was also honest about their troubles and how they got through it.

The stories were open, honest and to the point. Though there was one story where I would have liked more context. Everyone found out that his wife was pregnant with their second child because a friend dared her to take a pregnancy test. Wait, what? How does that happen?

The stuff with the church he belonged to. For crying out loud, those who were judging him and kicking him out were committing the sin of pride. Had me thanking God I’m Catholic and have the sacrament of confession where I am absolved of my sins. And his step-dad using the Bible as punishment…that is the exact opposite of what the Bible is for. 
Did they all forget the Proverbs 24:16 “for a righteous man falls seven times and rises again”? 

ETA: On reflection I think I came off as self righteous and just want to add that I don’t think I am better than other Christians because I’m Catholic. We’re all sinners. Just to clear it up: I am glad I wasn’t told as a child that I was so bad I was going to hell, or that because I am “backsliding” that I would be cast away. I was just told God loves you and He will forgive you, and go to Confession.

Anyway, to sum up I really enjoyed this book. It was like a long form of the Dear America podcast and I heard Graham’s voice in my head reading it.

5 out of 5 American Flags.

Favorite Quotes:

Page 29: You may not realize it in your own life, but no matter how dark things are now, there is always a tomorrow, and God is working in your life. In fact, I’ve learned that it is when we think God isn’t there that He is actually working the hardest behind the scenes, lining up what He has in store for us next!

Page 202: America is not some sort of Utopian Leave It to Beaver family TV show. America is like a big, dysfunctional family. Siblings here can hate each other and bicker constantly. But by God, nobody else had better come after your brother or your sister, or you’ll come out swinging. That’s how I view America.

Top Ten Tuesday November 8: Series I’d Like to Start/Catch up on/Finish

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November 8: Series I’d Like to Start/Catch up on/Finish

To Finish

1) Blood and Gold Book 3:Queens of the Sea by Kim Wilkins. 

To Catch Up On:

2) Sebastian St. Cyr Series by C.S. Harris. I read Book 1 and Book 10 of the 18 book series.

3) The Founders TrilogyShorefall and Locklands by Robert Jackson Bennett. The last two books.

To Start:
4) Themis Files Series: Sleeping Giants, Waking Gods, Only Human by Sylvain Neuvel.

5) The Legends of the First EmpireAge of Myth by Michael J. Sullivan.

6) Temeraire seiresHis Majesty’s Dragon by Naomi Novik.

7) The Divine Cities TrilogyCity of Stairs by Robert Jackson Bennett.

Top Ten Tuesday November 1: Unlikable Characters You Can’t Help but Love

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November 1: Unlikable Characters You Can’t Help but Love (These are villains, criminals, jerks, etc. that make you fall in love with them anyway, perhaps because they evolve by the end or they’re secretly wonderful and have been all along.)

1) Kit Marlowe in Shadow of Night. I know many fans genuinely hate him but I don’t. He has unrequited love and that makes him jealous and vindictive. But I still love him because he’s a snarky B. 

2) Apollonius in Iron Gold and Dark Age. He is crazy, like bat-s*** crazy. But so much fun. I am not rooting for him, but I enjoy his antics for entertainment value. 

3) Ephraim in Iron Gold and Dark Age. I hated him at first but by the end of Iron Gold I made a 180. With a reread seeing the arc of his character, it’s done brilliantly. 

4) Aro in Twilight Saga. This probably has more to do with Michael Sheen playing him in the movies because I love the way he hams it up for the screen.

5) Snape in Harry Potter. I know he’s not the real villain of the series, but he is a big bully to the students. Not just Harry, but Neville. Be that as it may, I do like his snakiness at times. 

6) Frankenstein‘s monster. He’s murdered and done some bad things but what makes him sympathetic is that his creator abandoned him. His maker made him that way. 

7) Thrawn from several Star Wars novels and animated series. He’s the villain because he works for the Empire. But he’s a genius and I like how he studies the artwork of cultures to understand them and predict their moves. 

8) Garnah – The Queens of Renthia Series. She had questionable morals and loved to use poison on people, but she was very funny and if she helping the protagonists then you’re rooting for her too.

Siracusa by Delia Ephron

An electrifying novel about marriage and deceit from bestselling author Delia Ephron that follows two couples on vacation in Siracusa, a town on the coast of Sicily, where the secrets they have hidden from one another are exposed and relationships are unraveled.

New Yorkers Michael, a famous writer, and Lizzie, a journalist, travel to Italy with their friends from Maine Finn; his wife, Taylor; and their daughter, Snow. Told Rashomon-style in alternating points of view, the characters expose and stumble upon lies and infidelities past and present. 

Snow, ten years old and precociously drawn into a far more adult drama, becomes the catalyst for catastrophe as the novel explores collusion and betrayal in marriage. 

With her inimitable psychological astuteness and uncanny understanding of the human heart, Ephron delivers a powerful meditation on marriage, friendship, and the meaning of travel. Set on the sun-drenched coast of the Ionian Sea, Siracusa unfolds with the pacing of a psychological thriller and delivers an unexpected final act that none will see coming.

I bought this back in July of 2017 when I went on a book crawl in Manhattan with my friend. I got it from the independent book shop Three Lives & Company. 

Recently I was watching a show on TV about Archimedes and how his inventions helped defend Siracusa from the Romans. So that is what prompted me to finally pick this up off my TBR.  

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